Stop workplace sexual violence: Consent 101

Consent 101

People must consent to sexual activity. Consent means giving permission for something to happen or agreeing to do something, without force or coercion. If it is not a clear, enthusiastic “yes” then it is a “no”.

Source: Consent is Golden: Do you get it? 

Consent:

  • Must be given freely by all people involved
  • Must be a clear YES
  • Must not be assumed or implied
  • Is never silence or the absence of NO
  • Is active and ongoing
  • Can change if anyone changes their mind
  • Cannot be given if someone is impaired or unconscious
  • Cannot exist under threats or coercion
  • Does not carry over from one activity to another. Consent for one sexual activity is not consent for other or future sexual activities
  • Does not exist if someone abuses a position of trust, power or authority[i] 

Consent is required for any sexual activity.  Physical exchanges in the workplace also require consent - for example, to hold someone’s hand, give a hug, touch someone’s hair, or touch a woman’s pregnant belly. These actions may seem harmless, but they cross someone’s personal space and boundaries. Always ask for consent before entering someone’s personal space or touching their body.

 

[i] Centre for Research and Education on Violence Against Women and Children, Overcoming Barriers and Enhancing Supportive Responses:  The Research on Sexual Violence against Women, Western University, May 2012, p.10.